Ecclesiastes 3King James Version (KJV)
3 To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:
2 A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted;
3 A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up;
4 A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance;
5 A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;
6 A time to get, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away;
7 A time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;
8 A time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace.
9 What profit hath he that worketh in that wherein he laboureth?
10 I have seen the travail, which God hath given to the sons of men to be exercised in it.
11 He
hath made every thing beautiful in his time: also he hath set the world
in their heart, so that no man can find out the work that God maketh
from the beginning to the end.
Our most precious family member and our matriarch passed away in her sleep at the ripe age of 92 years old. My Nanny was my best friend for many many years and became the best friend to so many that she crossed paths with, including my oldest daughter.
Nanny was the toughest, most wise and consistent person in my life EVER. Her husband, my grandfather, was tragically killed when I was about 3 months old and she never remarried. She lived by herself until I was in middle school and she moved in with us, becoming a second mom to me.
She knew so much, was a devout follower of Jesus Christ, made the best truly Cajun shrimp gumbo you would ever taste and there wasn't much she couldn't sew or make. Her life growing up during the depression was hard and it helped her become who she was later in life.
She didn't age much at all until about the last ten years when she began to fight chronic kidney disease, refusing any dialysis or aggressive treatment--as a nurse, this was when I realized how truly tough she was--but her faith remained steadfast. I imagine that she ran through those pearly gates at full speed to finally greet her creator and then hug the love of her life again for the first time in almost 40 years.
As sad as we all were, we were so glad to know she was finally at peace again....if anyone I know deserves that peace, it was my Nanny Ailene. Rest in Peace!
While we were back in South Texas for her memorial, we went by her old house and my childhood home. Brought back such great memories of roller skating for hours in her driveway.
As a child, our front yard seemed so much larger thank it is and our
street seemed so much wider. I remember when my mom finally let me
cross the street on my own to play with the girl across the street--it
seemed a mile wide!
We also made a quick trip to the beach. Stormie has been begging to go to the beach and she didn't want to leave! It was a nice, but windy, day. Hopefully we can make some day trips to the beach this summer for some real play time.
After the memorial service, my great-grandparent's old home, which is now a B&B, was graciously opened up for us to greet guests and have a luncheon. It is so beautiful.
All of Nanny's great-grandkids together to celebrate her life!